Walker

Walker was gone to Aunt April's house and came back with this creation. " I make Mommy happy?" and when I told him he was getting to go to Hastings Garden for playgroup he said " you make me happy too, mommy" Other "Walker-isms"..."What are you doing , mommy?" "I'm playing with your hair" "It's not toy hair-it's my hair" Asking me/paul/nana/april/poppa "What are you doin?" even though it's evident what we are doing...eating, driving a car ...so now we say "i'm flying an airplane, eating worms, shopping for groceries" and he'll grin and say "i'm playing in the dirt" and this goes back and forth either at the table while we are eating or driving. He is always asking "What are you doing?" and "Are you happy?"...over and over so we started asking him the same and his response is "Stop bothering me" or "Are you messin' with me?" Mother's Day was nice...sweet home made cards from all the kids , clean house , and time to shop.

End of the Year Activites

Wow~ we have been slammed with end of the year activites. I had alot of school volunteering projects to finish. I was able to do both publishing book/parties for Coleman and Olivia's class. It is a "big deal" I have found out for the kids/parents/memories but no one likes to sign up to do the work so since I have 4 kids the odds were I needed to figure out how to do publishing. Nikki (Jack's mom) helped calm me down when the first few (our boys ) books had the pages falling out. I didn't want people to ask "Who in the heck was in charge of publishing this year? These are horrible" B/c of course, I hate to lead....but I was with women who didn't like to be in charge either so still not sure how I became in charge but it went amazingly well for both classess andpages didn't fall out. Although, I did go home and hot glue 6 books that had some loose pages. The school had bought a new binding machine and the school bought a laminator like mine b/c our front art work turned out so well using it and I heard using the iron was horrible. Both parties went well with no complaints (at least to my face ) and no major typos...but I guess they could volunteer next year- ha. Glad to have the knowledge and next year will be a breeze. Paying my dues and I appreciate my mom and I'm glad I get to be involved and do projects like this. Coleman's book was "ABC all about Me" book and Olivia was "What I Want to Be When I Grow Up"

MY BOYS

Walker

Walker got a haircut at the end of April. He did great although i made the mistake of telling him one day when he said he couldn't walk b/c his legs were hurting did he want me to cut his legs off....well it stuck with him and he is always asking if the doctor is going to cut his ear off...or cut Coleman's throat off...b/c of a sore throat so he was worried it was going to hurt to cut his hair even though I have trimmed it at home. He tells everyone "me can no like you...me like my nana"...this includes strangers, his wonderful mother, his teachers so we are working on loving more than one person and not saying things to hurt peoples feelings. He told me "whatever" this week when he couldn't find his clothes on the couch and when I showed them to him he mumbled "whatever" and I said " what did you say?" and started singing "i'm so sorry...I'm so sorry". He's a little obsessed with my mom..takes the phone out of the room to talk and wants me to stay in the other room. When she comes to visit, he asks her the whole time "you staying at my house..you not going home" and when she does leave he cries and pleads "please , don't leave me nana. I want to go with you. I love you nana" I told my mom if you didn't know him you'd think he lived in an abused home but ususally 30 min. later he is ok and I'm his #1 as along as Nana isn't there...but she is always there in our discussions and only mentions her 30x a day..but i'm glad he loves her that much and that she is able to put up with his obsession. Coleman was like this but they lived in AR so she kept him for 2 weeks and he didnt' want to come home when he was around 3 so no telling how bad it would be if she had lived in GA when he was little. Olivia was always a mommy's girl..although she loved nana/poppa's she was noton the obsession level.

Easter-2009

So in most ways I'm not a planner but a procrastinator....so Easter..I kinda threw together. I had planned Easter crafts and baking in my head but never made it past the inner workings of my quirky brain so.........just decorated a little, resurrection eggs, and did egg coloring/dye but the kids didn't seem to mind or know what they were missing. Walker was up late the night before working his charm so the Easter bunny was late and only hid 4 eggs outside ( just enough so that the kids could see he had come but was going to hide the rest of the eggs in the yard once we got home from church ;). Unfort, my kids are eagle eyes..and they looked out the windows and wondered why the Easter bunny only hid 4 eggs..so I said well those are the ones you can see probably. Church was great until 5 min. before service we get a call from a friend in the nursery that Caleb has pink eye...we have a very efficient system in getting all 4 kids to church..esp. on Easter morning..surely we didn't overlook pink eye. So, I go back and see Caleb's very pink..starting to weep eye...our friend said "when i saw him I said that's a Wendl kid...he's the 4th. They just wet his hair down and throw him in the car"....sad but very close to the truth. So Caleb and I hung out in the foyer with all the other late people and tried to pretend he didn't have pink eye while keeping him away from all the other kids. My mom/dad, brother, sister-in-law, niece, and neighbor were over for the Easter egg hunt, lunch, and then we sat on the deck and visited all afternoon. Note to self...let my mom make the choc./coconut cake next year....jeez. I'm stealing this from Jen..I'm glad my family is here to share in life/daily events and not just to babysit. The kids all found the egg with their name on it..including Walker by himself..he was so tickled with the eggs/candy/money. Coleman told my mom on the phone with Zoey in the room " the Easter bunny came while we were in the front yard and hid alot of eggs..and then he told Zoey to leave the room and whispered to my mom....I know it's my mom and dad hiding the eggs.---my heart was sad :( but sweet for him not to ruin the fun for the little ones. Olivia thinks a rabbit isn't smart enough to hide egg/do baskets but that it's a real person dressed as a bunny doing it. The resurrection eggs were good...the kids listened, opened the eggs, answered the questions, and we tried to explain without sounding like "drink the kool-aid" parents of God's love for us and what Easter was about....we'll see. It was a fab. day.

Spring Break-2009

So we usually don't go anywhere for spring break b/c Paul is busy with tulip photo shoots but he had 3 days off so the kids (esp Olivia) always want to stay in a hotel...I guess b/c we hardly ever do...it's usually easier to rent a cabin or house to fit our needs (which after this trip only confirms that thought). We went to the No. Georgia Mtns. (helen) and the kids only criteria was it have an indoor pool. They were so excited and enjoyed every aspect of hotel life. We got 2 rooms ( 1 bedroom/and a living room). I let them jump on the beds/ back and forth. They stayed up late , watched alot of tv, and ate junk food-life was good in their little world. They loved the breakfast and making their own waffles but most of all loved the pool...they swam 2-3x a day. They loved the hike...well Walker didn't. He called my mom on the hike and told her "Walker can no like the woods. We are lost in the woods. Please come get me Nana" but he ended up being a trooper. The older kids told everyone about our 'vacation' and we were staying in a hotel with a pool. Now, I had fun b/c they had fun BUT Caleb didn't adjust well to his room and cried the first nite so of course we couldn't let him cry for long and the 2nd nite he went to bed fine but then was awake from midnight -4a.m....crying, playing on the floor, laughing...it was insane! Hotel life is not for me...i disinfected everything but we met several nice people but overall crowds annoy me :D. We were exhausted that morning..and I missed my coffee...kids were tired and ready to go home...but some good memories

Fire Station with Walker

Walker and I went to visit the fire station with our playgroup friends. I almost backed out because there was a terrible storm-pouring rain. But, Walker insisted we go see the firetrucks. Caleb fell asleep so I was able to leave him home with Paul/Stuart. Walker had a great time..asking endless questions about the truck and what everything was for. The firemen were very patient and kind but probably glad to see all the 2/3 yr olds go. Walker wanted them to drive the truck so he could ride in it. Later we followed a garbage truck (baa-bage truck)-as it picked up dumpsters and he was thrilled and so tickled. He bought a 2nd garbage truck with his birthday money- the 1st is green so he picked a blue garbage truck that picks up dumpsters.

end of March

Kids are making mud pies, volanoes, cookies- they come in caked with mud but have been creative so that's great. Caleb is pointing his finger back at you when you say "no, no"--and laughing. He is cutting all 4 front top teeth...with the 2 incisors ifurther out..looks like a vampire but oh the diapers. He still likes to throw his sippy cup off the his tray and starts throwing his food when he is done. Likes our food vs. toddler food. Walker...well so much to say...went to see our favorite pediatrician-Dr. Cabrera-who kept saying he's a character., I'm loving him, don't cut his hair=it's great. Constantly, asking Dr. Cabrera questions...what are you doing doctor?, are you going to hurt me?, no it's not my turn. We had to go back today b/c Walker woke up crying from his nap saying his ear was hurting....kept saying cut off my ear I want a new one...so we are on steroids for croup and antibiotics for ear infection. Always hold our hands in the parking lot....and reminds us if we don't. Coleman got the special plate tonight and we all said what we liked about Coleman....he's been so helpful, making good decisions, helping his sister, makes us laugh...he was excited to to have the plate. Olivia had it 2 nights ago...we appreciated she is a good listener at school and church, good friend, good at arts and crafts.. They feel so special when they get to use the plate. We are working on flashcards for both of them....I've been lax in doing them so we are behind. Tulips are out....very beautiful..i'll try to post some pics.